Guest The other Women Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 What goes on in the mind of a woman who knows that the man they are sleeping with is taken but continues to have sex with them any way? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 It's the perfect setup for lots of women who are terrified to commit. As long as he's unavailable, they don't have to look straight down the barrel of their inability to maintain a decent relationship, nor face the fear of the unknown. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 What goes on in the mind of a woman who knows that the man they are sleeping with is taken but continues to have sex with them any way? EXCITEMENT, ADVENTURE, RISK.....AND NOT HAVING TO SEE THAT SAME PERSON EVERY FREAKIN' DAY! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 EXCITEMENT, ADVENTURE, RISK.....AND NOT HAVING TO SEE THAT SAME PERSON EVERY FREAKIN' DAY! ......which all adds up to the mentality of a ninth grade schoolgirl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 EXCITEMENT, ADVENTURE, RISK.....AND NOT HAVING TO SEE THAT SAME PERSON EVERY FREAKIN' DAY! There is not a damn thing in the world wrong with being a mistress! You get all the benefits without the day to day crap of dealing with him! No, cooking for him, cleaning for him, picking up after him etc. Not to mention the excitement, adventure and risk like the above poster said. If the wife took care of him at home he wouldn't be spending time with me so I don't feel bad for her either. Terrified of commitment? Nope just no desire for commitment life is too short to be tied down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sleepless in Hillcrest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 You get all the benefits without the day to day crap of dealing with him! No, cooking for him, cleaning for him, picking up after him etc. No, having someone to care for your every need should you become sick. No shoulder to lay your head on, should you come home from an especially trying day. No having to share your day to day thoughts and ideas with him. Who needs all that crap? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 Better yet...what the heck is wrong with the guy? He shouldn't have settled down if he still wanted to play the field. The whole excuse of "if the wife/girlfriend was taking care of him at home he wouldn't be out" is old and childish. You want adventure and excitement...go jump out of an airplane or off a cliff. I personally don't have any problem with my husband...we have excitement and adventure in the bedroom because we have alittle thing called communication. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 There is not a damn thing in the world wrong with being a mistress! You get all the benefits without the day to day crap of dealing with him! No, cooking for him, cleaning for him, picking up after him etc. Not to mention the excitement, adventure and risk like the above poster said. If the wife took care of him at home he wouldn't be spending time with me so I don't feel bad for her either. Terrified of commitment? Nope just no desire for commitment life is too short to be tied down. You are pathetic! You don't care about the wife or his children? What if one day the excitement comes to an end and the wife finds out? Are you a mistress to one man or many? And how long do you stay being a mistress? You have no self respect for yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Kitty Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 There is not a damn thing in the world wrong with being a mistress! You get all the benefits without the day to day crap of dealing with him! No, cooking for him, cleaning for him, picking up after him etc. Not to mention the excitement, adventure and risk like the above poster said. If the wife took care of him at home he wouldn't be spending time with me so I don't feel bad for her either. Terrified of commitment? Nope just no desire for commitment life is too short to be tied down. Clearly the words of someone who was dropped on their head ... HARD!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 What goes on in the mind of a woman who knows that the man they are sleeping with is taken but continues to have sex with them any way? Who knows what goes through their minds. Mistresses are worthless pieces of meat to the men who are having sex with them. They're for gratification purposes only. What goes through their minds is probably something like: "I'm must be a loser or I'd be able to get my own man and not some other womans leftovers". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 There is not a damn thing in the world wrong with being a mistress! You get all the benefits without the day to day crap of dealing with him! No, cooking for him, cleaning for him, picking up after him etc. Not to mention the excitement, adventure and risk like the above poster said. If the wife took care of him at home he wouldn't be spending time with me so I don't feel bad for her either. Terrified of commitment? Nope just no desire for commitment life is too short to be tied down. Just because you don't feel really scared whenever your mind conjures up an image of yourself in a comitted marriage doesn't mean you're not scared of it. The human mind is an incredible organ. It can deny and repress feelings and convince you of any rationalization you can conceive. "I dont wanna be tied down" = terrified of the abandonment that a comittment risks, in most cases. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 Just because you don't feel really scared whenever your mind conjures up an image of yourself in a comitted marriage doesn't mean you're not scared of it. The human mind is an incredible organ. It can deny and repress feelings and convince you of any rationalization you can conceive. "I dont wanna be tied down" = terrified of the abandonment that a comittment risks, in most cases. What if the guy is not married? If the guy is not married it's fair GAME! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 If he's not married, by definition, you're not a Mistress, you're a girlfriend. You may not be the only one, but you are one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 To the mistress poster who doesn't want committment...i'm available...wanna trade emails? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guestss Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 What a bunch of crap! If he wasn't taken care of home he wouldn't be seeing me! Oh how righteous we are, you're nothing more than a DELETED. by the way, "YOU" Do Make Demands. Do you like being labeled a DELETED, fine with me. First off you wouldn't be part of our lives he'd be gone, as they say we always really know. Well how's this after I leave him and I would first time out, he wouldn't want you for anything more than a roll in the hay if that, say a lot about you huh? How does it feel to know you matter not in the scheme of things? I give him to you on a platter, I dont' accept used up hacks, and he doesn't want you at all, feel good? The so called mistress is different than an escort service in case you don't know the difference. I can tell you Spitzers wife may stay she's in a tough situation at this moment with the family, but if you think for one minute she's in bed with him think again. He is screwed now no matter what way he turns. Karma, AH Karma! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 If he wasn't taken care of home he wouldn't be seeing me! And one mere 11 word sentence sums up the intelligence of those speaking for the mistresses of the world. He won't marry you and have children because he is afraid their IQs would equal yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Angelo Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 What a bunch of crap! If he wasn't taken care of home he wouldn't be seeing me! Oh how righteous we are, you're nothing more than a DELETED. by the way, "YOU" Do Make Demands. Do you like being labeled a DELETED, fine with me. First off you wouldn't be part of our lives he'd be gone, as they say we always really know. Well how's this after I leave him and I would first time out, he wouldn't want you for anything more than a roll in the hay if that, say a lot about you huh? How does it feel to know you matter not in the scheme of things? I give him to you on a platter, I dont' accept used up hacks, and he doesn't want you at all, feel good? The so called mistress is different than an escort service in case you don't know the difference. I can tell you Spitzers wife may stay she's in a tough situation at this moment with the family, but if you think for one minute she's in bed with him think again. He is screwed now no matter what way he turns. Karma, AH Karma! Let me ask you something...are you a very large woman..with thick dark hair on your upper lip and walks with a limp. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Just Lookin Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 And one mere 11 word sentence sums up the intelligence of those speaking for the mistresses of the world. He won't marry you and have children because he is afraid their IQs would equal yours. I have to put in my 2 cents here. I have to agree with the Mistresses. If a man is "taken care of" at home in all ways then he is not going to wander. You start making your man feel unloved, unappreciated, unwanted........well if he steps out then you really have no one to blame but yourself. Let the bashing begin! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 I have to put in my 2 cents here. I have to agree with the Mistresses. If a man is "taken care of" at home in all ways then he is not going to wander. You start making your man feel unloved, unappreciated, unwanted........well if he steps out then you really have no one to blame but yourself. Let the bashing begin! I think you're right in about 75% of cases. There are men, however, who will never grow up and learn how to be satisfied with just one woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sleepless in Hillcrest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 I have to put in my 2 cents here. I have to agree with the Mistresses. If a man is "taken care of" at home in all ways then he is not going to wander. You start making your man feel unloved, unappreciated, unwanted........well if he steps out then you really have no one to blame but yourself. Let the bashing begin! "Jane, you ignorant slut!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 I have to put in my 2 cents here. I have to agree with the Mistresses. If a man is "taken care of" at home in all ways then he is not going to wander. You start making your man feel unloved, unappreciated, unwanted........well if he steps out then you really have no one to blame but yourself. Let the bashing begin! What cave were you dragged into and crawled out of? The reality is that marriage, as well as any relationship between a man & woman, is a TWO WAY street. If its not, then it will suffocate and die. I don't buy the "if your man isn't taken care of..made to feel unloved, unappreciated..he'll wander". Hello. What wife/girlfriend would want to keep caring for someone if they are not getting some reciprocation? Did you ever think that maybe some men cheat because they are insecure or fall into the "I am King" syndrome? That's fine as long as they make their WOMAN feel like a Queen. You also come across as submissive and weak....I don't see equality in your words. And by the way I know of some instances where a man "stepped" out as you put it (I call it something a little different) and those bastards couldn't have wanted for anything else in the world. Their wives would have wiped their behinds if they asked. So your theory of "taking care of the man" (even restating your words sounds like they are nothing more than infantile beings) is not always the answer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Billy the Kid Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 "Jane, you ignorant slut!" OUCH!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 probably DELETED Wow caveman, you're so small. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 Folks, let me tell you a little (true) story. I've got a cousin (same age as me). We made different choices in life. 20 years ago, in our prime, we both went out w/ guys. After the usual share of creeps and nice guys, I found a great catch, and married him. She had an 'exciting' love 'affair' with a married man. Then, she got (oops!) pregnant, and he did the 'right?" thing, left his wife (oh, his SECOND wife, AND two kids!!) and married her. Awwwwwwwwwwww....Things were oh, so lovely... riiiiiiiiiiight. Lo and behold, two kids later, he was found to be (WHAT A SURPRISE!!!!!!) HAVING AN AFFAIR!!! He left his wife, my cousin, and got with the next skank in line, and moved in with her, leaving my cousin destitute and with two kids to care for all by herself... This guy must have a HUGE ONE, cuz there ain't nothing else redeeming about him, in looks, intelligence, or anything else.... This is prolly the most common story ever told about women who mess with men who mess with women. To the 'other woman', I can only say.... DUH!!!!!!!!! You get what you deserve. Enjoy!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cave Man Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 Wow caveman, you're so small. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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