Brighteyes Posted April 1, 2008 Report Share Posted April 1, 2008 This is something I wonder myself. Just don't know. @ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jusdagurl Posted April 1, 2008 Report Share Posted April 1, 2008 I’ve never acted on a forbidden crush, but would only be afraid of the out come. I think my biggest fear would to be losing that friend. Although finding someone attracting physically, mentally, intellectually. I think when one saves you from inevitable doom you look up to that person with the up most respect and dignity. So I don’t know what to tell you I like many would struggle with this for a very long time. @ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 1, 2008 Report Share Posted April 1, 2008 Crushes are sweet torture. Sometimes they wake up feelings inside of you that you haven't felt in years. Makes you feel alive again. Brighteyes, you are soooooo right. I have had this experience in recent years. I do think he feels the same way, and thank goodness neither of us has acted on it. It would destroy a lot of lives. But, I also think it would ruin that 'sweet torture' I feel, which, I actually enjoy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marius Posted April 1, 2008 Report Share Posted April 1, 2008 What happens when you have a crush on this guy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 1, 2008 Report Share Posted April 1, 2008 What happens when you have a crush on this guy? It depends on if you mean Bob Saget or Danny Tanner. @ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 1, 2008 Report Share Posted April 1, 2008 It depends on if you mean Bob Saget or Danny Tanner. @ If you're crushin on Bob, you are prolly a homo. No woman I know would be crushin on ol' Bob. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brighteyes Posted April 1, 2008 Report Share Posted April 1, 2008 What happens when you have a crush on this guy? Nothing happens for me. He is cute, but he doesn't make you hot! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2pelo Honey Posted April 1, 2008 Report Share Posted April 1, 2008 Is it at all possible to keep the friendship, have the passion that you're afraid to act on, and just be that friend on the side with benefits, as long as nothing ever changed? Even though you both know that you're doing something wrong as long as it feels right, what's wrong with that? Good luck w/ that one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sleepless in Hillcrest Posted April 1, 2008 Report Share Posted April 1, 2008 Nothing happens for me. He is cute, but he doesn't make you hot! He's pretty hot for a guy...and he played a great "guest" role on "Entourage"! Not as good as Gary Busey... but pretty good! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 1, 2008 Report Share Posted April 1, 2008 Nice sentiment, but not realistic. If a guy has real feelings for a woman (Not just hormonal attraction) it's only a matter of time before she figures it out no matter how hard he tries to hide it. It only takes one tiny slip of the tongue, smile, gesture, look or whatever - she will figure it out. Woman are better at hideing it and guys arn't as perceptive, so if the OP is a woman, you have a better chance of staying friends. Yes - it's happened to me and it's extremely sad loosing a friend. The longer you keep the feelings bottled up the stronger they will get and it will hurt even more when things go bad. That's how many of us get caught. That's what tripped me up,if you are trying to hide the fact that you have a crush on a girl,never,never,slip her the tongue! @ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 2, 2008 Report Share Posted April 2, 2008 not only will you lose your friend. you will find that your new relationship will eventually become just as boring as your old relationship, and you will again get a crush on someone new again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 2, 2008 Report Share Posted April 2, 2008 I watched this program on TV last night I guess it is another reality show It was called High School Reunion It brought back a lot of memories for me. I wondered how I would handle having another chance with someone I had a crush on. It was really interesting. Age seems to boost confidence because I wouldnt hesitate to tell them now and wouldnt be afraid of being rejected like I was way back then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 2, 2008 Report Share Posted April 2, 2008 not only will you lose your friend. you will find that your new relationship will eventually become just as boring as your old relationship, and you will again get a crush on someone new again. That's known as "life". Mature people don't throw the baby with the bath water. They understand that a commitment is just that, an agreement. They know beforehand that changing partners is often no more than swapping the old problems for new ones, or the same ones with a new face. Immature people think "it's all THEIR fault", that if I didn't have this person near me I wouldn't have these problems. Lo and behold, new partner....same problems. This, unfortunately reinforces their erroneous belief that it MUST be the other person. @ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Road Warrior Posted April 2, 2008 Report Share Posted April 2, 2008 Oh yeah. Realized consequences would be too great for everyone involved. Would just be trading one set of problems for another. I think it's normal and probably happens to everyone at least once. MAYBE MORE THAN ONCE AND MORE THAN YOU'LL KNOW. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Road Warrior Posted April 2, 2008 Report Share Posted April 2, 2008 I watched this program on TV last night I guess it is another reality show It was called High School Reunion It brought back a lot of memories for me. I wondered how I would handle having another chance with someone I had a crush on. It was really interesting. Age seems to boost confidence because I wouldnt hesitate to tell them now and wouldnt be afraid of being rejected like I was way back then. HERE'S A REALITY. I WENT TO A COLLEGE REU AND THE SWEET HEART THAT BROKE MY HEART WAS THERE. FOR MANY YEARS I WONDERED WHAT IF. I FIGURED OUT THERE IS A GOD. WHEN I SAW HER SHE BLEW UP TO 300LBS. OMG. SIMPLY SAID" THANK YOU LORD". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 2, 2008 Report Share Posted April 2, 2008 I have a crush it might be even more then just a crush. One I know I can never act on. The circumstances surrounding it are way to complicated. If only......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Crusher Posted April 2, 2008 Report Share Posted April 2, 2008 I have a crush it might be even more then just a crush. One I know I can never act on. The circumstances surrounding it are way to complicated. If only......... I acted on it...have never been sorry, was good while it lasted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 2, 2008 Report Share Posted April 2, 2008 Keep your crush to yourself. Seriously. A person I knew had a crush on me and that person was my good friend. One day the person suddenly acted on it and gave me a kiss and I was very put off. That person knew immediately that it put me off and our friendship was never the same. @ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest-Confusued Posted April 3, 2008 Report Share Posted April 3, 2008 I have one now as well, but it is absolutley not possible. But I cannot get her off of my mind. The worse part about it is I think she feels the same way. Part of the problem is not knowing how the other person feels. How the heck do you figure out what the other person is thinking without looking like a fool? These situations do seem impossible especially when one or both of you are in another relationship. For me, not sweet torture, just torture. Would like to know for sure and am tired of thinking about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saturday'sChild Posted April 3, 2008 Report Share Posted April 3, 2008 MAYBE MORE THAN ONCE AND MORE THAN YOU'LL KNOW. Yes, realize it happens more than once but most we can let go of. The hard ones are those we want to act upon and they can drive you crazy. These things are always a mess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 3, 2008 Report Share Posted April 3, 2008 Part of the problem is not knowing how the other person feels. How the heck do you figure out what the other person is thinking without looking like a fool? Basically, you don't. It's always a risk, whether it's a crush, a normal relationship, or a covert one. I just lost someone I was having a covert affair with. @ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 4, 2008 Report Share Posted April 4, 2008 Basically, you don't. It's always a risk, whether it's a crush, a normal relationship, or a covert one. I just lost someone I was having a covert affair with. @ what is a covert affair? @ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest-Wondering Posted April 4, 2008 Report Share Posted April 4, 2008 I have one now as well, but it is absolutley not possible. But I cannot get her off of my mind. The worse part about it is I think she feels the same way. Why not tell her? Find out for sure and then decide what is or isn't possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 4, 2008 Report Share Posted April 4, 2008 what is a covert affair? @ Hidden. Not out in the open. @ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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